Archive for the ‘Relationship Coaching’ Category
Are you experiencing a healthy relationship? Find out by answering yes to as many of the signs below as possible. Support is always available to move you forward in having the life of your dreams if need.
Here goes:
1. You feel secure and happy when you’re together and alone – not sad, suspicious, angry or deprived.
2. You are inspired by each other to fulfill your dreams and become the best you can be.
3. You are generous and giving – you want to give all you can to your partner and are so fulfilled that you also want to give to everyone else around you.
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How do you know if you’re in an unhealthy relationship? Let me show you the ways…. Answer yes to some or most of the signs listed below and chances are you need HELP. Support is always available to move you forward in having the life of your dreams.
Here goes:
1. You feel insecure and weak around each other.
2. Your trust is irrevocably broken.
3. Priorities other than each other constantly present themselves.
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Gossip is providence of small-minded individuals. The biggest cost of gossiping is that it robs you of a clear mind. People who are impeccable see the world more clearly. They think more clearly and thus can be more effective in their decisions and actions.
When you speak ill of another to anyone else, it may temporarily bound you to that other person, but it creates a lasting impression in the other that you are the kind of person who gossips negatively about others. That other person will always be wondering – even if unconsciously – when you will turn that verbal poison against them. It will erode their sense of deep trust in you. Wars have been started over words. People have been killed because of words. Deals have been lost because of words. Marriages have been destroyed because of words.
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“Impeccability of the word can led you to personal freedom, to huge success and abundance, it can take away all fear and transform it into joy and love“ ~ Don Ruiz – The Four Agreements
For most of us our words are spoken without consciousness. We rarely stop to think about what we are saying. our thoughts, opinions, judgments and beliefs roll off our tongues without a care for the damage of the benefits they can produce. Successful people on the other hand are the master of their words. They know that if they don’t take dominion over their words, their words will take dominion over them. They’re conscious of the thoughts they think and the words they speak – both about themselves and others.
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H.I.P. Relationship Tip: Self-care isn’t just about you.
Whether you’re a teacher, coach, parent, minister, when you want to help others change it’s oh so tempting to believe that means giving your all, 110% of the time. That is means being on call no matter what – going the extra mile, being invested in the outcome and truth be told sometimes it does.
Short bursts of all out giving as a teacher, coach, minister, especially parent comes with the territory. But if you do it for extended stretches or you believe you must do it to be good or to be worth what you charge, you’re setting yourself up for a big ole train wreck of burnt out and soul sucking resentment.
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Make a commitment with yourself to be authentic in all aspects of your life, especially in how you relate to others. Get naked with your truth, offering the world your greatest gift: Your Authentic Self. I’ve learned that the world only want one thing from us, our Truth.
Throughout my life the more me I’ve become the more powerfully I express myself. This is available to you too, all of us have the capacity to release. Our message today it to be more real and honor the truth in all. Begin a practice of being yourself in conversations, on your dates, in your marriage, in the office, in your home and with your family.
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Sometimes, I have to stop in wonder and say to myself – wow how did I find the perfect woman to share this life journey of soul unfoldment? Yes, it took quite some time and work but boy was it worth it. Early on, after meeting my wife, Shakira, I knew she was the one for me. How did I know.
Let me share the ways – well 10 ways I used to informed myself, maybe they can help you…
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A course in miracles tells us that all human actions are either pure expressions of love or calls for love. Anyone who is upset, angry or nasty is in pain. Hurt people hurt people. No one at peace with him or herself would do anything to hurt anyone else. The Course tells us to not take the nastiness of others personally. Their dark actions are not about you. They speak of that person’s consciousness. They are a call for love.
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It takes courage to look at our lives honestly. Really, it does – most of the time we just talk ourselves into being satisfied with the norm. But then at the most pivotal moments in our life something happens. There is a rumbling from some unknown place within us that tells us more of the same isn’t an option. We have a flash that there is something greater. We sense something brighter and have a taste or an inkling of a life that is more real and more fulfilling than the one we are currently living. We have caught a vision for our life.
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In my 23 plus years of counseling over 100 couples I cannot begin to express the number of times couples come before me, some dating for a number of years, and yet it is during premarital sessions that certain things are revealed. Preparing for your marriage, well a successful marriage, will mean that you take immediate action after engagement.
Some steps in preparing yourself for a successful marriage are:
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